The Love Game

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Recently I have noticed a surge in people who have constant conflict in their relationships. Sometimes it's not that the relationship is bad, truthfully it could be, people have no idea what they want.

I hear people remorseful about dating but fearing leaving. If you could look at it like this ; guy meets girl, finds her wildly attractive but not marriage material.  He dreams of the possibility of being with his dream girl, who is nothing like the attractive woman in front of him, but instead of staying alone the man will settle for the person in front of him so as not to be alone.  Not only will settling bring the energy of sadness and lack of fulfilment, it also brings bitterness.

On the other hand you will get a women who is looking for a particular type of guy ie. good with children, supportive, trustworthy etc... she will find someone who is 2 out of three of the things she is looking for or maybe even one of those things and hopes and prays he will grow up in time to fit the image in her mind of what she wants, the game of  "Nag, Nag, nit pick, nit pick, you are nothing like what I expected you to be like by this time, " in this she becomes bitter and you guessed it, remorseful.

Both of these people end up longing for something they don't have and bitter at what they do have. So what is the game, the game is waitting it out to see who will leave first, causing havock in the other persons life in order to not be the asshole this time around. Because these kinds of people almost always have someone from their past calling them a controlling asshole...

How can we as people avoid this retarded game, well first, understand that even the most perfect seeming situation can fail. Be honest with yourself, be honest with the other person, put your plates on the table and say "this is truly what I have to offer,"  both people take a hard honest look  at what is going on and say...yeah or meh, but be honest! 

Peeps, we have all done this before, we have all thought that the person in front of us could be adjusted to fit our dream, notably avoiding the truth, do we even fit in that dream.  Are you the type of person who will attract the person you want...6 times out of 10, the answer to that one is no!  Get out of your own way, avoid being bitter by being honest with yourself and doing the work that you are trying to avoid. Do the sit ups if you want someone who is fit, become a great cook if you want someone who enjoys food as much as you, get engulfed in your idea and dream of what your perfect life will be. The other side of this, people will change, and they will grow and sometimes not always in the same direction, just be adult enough to be an adult and do the right thing.

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